Obituary: To the father who never was.
Life is not that short. Live it as you wish to be remembered. We have all been granted the gifts of time, love and life; how we use them is our business and ours alone. It is not the choices we make which define us. At the end of the day, it is how we make them which determines the kinds of people we grow to be. My father made his, and I have made mine. I chose to forgive. My father - the man I hated for as far back as I can remember - has died. I hated him because he hated me. It sounds petty, but it's true. What man goes through life without once calling to check on his offspring? What man is a man who does not raise his children to be better than what he was? In a sense, he fulfilled the latter question: I now know the kind of father I do not wish to be. I made that promise to myself a long time ago - my children will know who I am and I will know them. Whether I can stomach to be around their mother or not; through the good times and the bad